Senpai Satur…eh Sunday?! Oops! Time To Be Gay For A Day…Just Kidding. I’m Gay All The Time.

First and foremost…sorry this wasn’t posted yesterday my pandas! I had a very busy day and I didn’t have the time to write it, but I’m glad I’m actually writing this post today instead of yesterday. I got to go to a local Pride Day Festival in my town and it was SUPER fun! Super GAY and rainbowy. My inner bisexual-self was proud! ❤

So what better way to celebrate PRIDE then to go over Yaoi/Yuri in the week’s Senpai Saturday. We’re here! We’re queer! (And no hate marches/rallies/protest are gonna stop us!) We are here to stay.

My lovely friends over at Wikipedia describe Yaoi/Yuri as the following:

Yaoiprimarily known as Boys’ Love (BL) in Japan, is a Japanese genre of fictional media focusing on romantic or sexual relationships between male characters, typically marketed for a female audience and usually created by female authors.

Yuri: also known by the wasei-eigo construction Girls’ Love is a Japanese jargon term for content and a genre involving love between women in manga, anime, and related Japanese media. Yuri focuses on the sexual orientation or the romantic orientation aspects of the relationship, or both, the latter of which sometimes being called shōjo-ai by Western fandom.”

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It seems yaoi/yuri relationships didn’t really pop up/appear in manga until the early 70’s. Then in the 90’s new terms, like Boys’ Love and Girls’ Love took over for older terms such as tanbishōnen ai and Juné in Japanese usage.

In 2003, the first manga (Yuri Shimai) was produced specifically dedicated to the Yuri audience. Its revival, Comic Yuri Hime was launched after the former was discontinued in 2004.

Yaoi is a term mostly used among female audience members. It is used in manga, anime, dating sims, novels and fan fiction works. Yaoi idealizes gay male relationships (which should be easy to guess if you have any common sense 😛 ). The Yaoi genre has spread beyond Japan, and both translated and original yaoi works are now available in many countries and languages. Yaoi isn’t just for the ladies though! Many guys enjoy these types of stories as well.


I want to quote a little information I found because I find this bit pretty damn interesting. It seems that the Yuri genre in North America (or Western culture) gets the more “sexual” side of the spectrum. That isn’t to say Yaoi doesn’t either (because it MOST certainly does), but (personally) I feel like women get “sexualized” more than men.

“In North America, yuri has initially been used to denote only the most explicit end of the spectrum, deemed primarily as a variety of hentai. Following the pattern of shōnen-ai, a term already in use in North America to describe content involving non-sexual relationships between men, Western fans coined the term shōjo-ai to describe yuri without explicit sex. In Japan, the term shōjo-ai is not used with this meaning, and instead tends to denote pedophilia (actual or perceived), with a similar meaning to the term lolicon (Lolita complex). The Western use of yuri has broadened in the 2000’s, picking up connotations from the Japanese use. American publishing companies such as ALC Publishing and Seven Seas Entertainment have also adopted the Japanese usage of the term to classify their yuri manga publications.”

Anyone have any particular thoughts on this? I would love to see other people’s opinions! You can always leave your comments down below.

Men have become more “sexualized” over the last decade or so. Women are becoming just as lustful as men. Hence, the movies Magic Mike 1 & 2 (if you don’t know what I’m talking about just Google it). Insert the Yaoi terms “seme” and “uke.” I think if you want to know more about those two terms you should just Google them as well…loloz XD. I don’t think I need to cover super sexual terms on my blog. I mean…I could but I feel like that would take away from this specific topic. I am here just to give you guys a general breakdown of specific anime/otaku terms without going too off topic.

Yaoi/Yuri isn’t just for the LGBTQAI community. Many straight people actually enjoy this genera as well! Surprise, surprise! Of course it is usually men who enjoy Yuri, while women enjoy Yaoi. Yuri is mainly aimed at men, while Yaoi is aimed at women.

Why do you ask? Because there is no distraction of the fan’s own gender, they can focus on the two girls or boys involved without having to feel “threatened” by the presence of a significant other. In laymen’s terms, if Miroku and Inuyasha are a couple, the female yaoi fan has no worries of her favorite bishounen being “taken” by another girl. They can sit back and enjoy the two studly bishies together. The same thing applies to yuri, except with the male fan focusing on the girls without the distraction of a male character.

I’ll leave you guys with some of my favorite Yaoi/Yuri anime series (some of these might have yaoi/yuri as a secondary element):

No. 6
Love Stage
Sailor Moon
Yuri!!! on Ice
Super Lovers
Kuzu no Honkai
Strawberry Panic
Junjou Romantica!
Sekai Ichi Hatsukoi
Riddle Story of Devil
Miss Kobayashi’s Dragon Maid

Disclaimer: All imagery and photos come from searching for them on the internet. I have no claim or right to them.

7 thoughts on “Senpai Satur…eh Sunday?! Oops! Time To Be Gay For A Day…Just Kidding. I’m Gay All The Time.

  1. A fun post a great way to celebrate Pride! I do have a few questions based on my own understanding. To my knowledge, yaoi only refers to graphically sexual stories involving (usually gay) men, while boy’s love (not to be confused with shounen-ai, which is something else entirely) refers to stories with any male-male relationships not involving explicit sexual content. Yuri, on the other hand, is used interchangeably for graphically sexual content and non graphic content (which you mentioned). Do you ever come across other terms to describe anime with female-female relarionships other than Yuri (I think that again, shoujou-ai is something different entirely). Nice job on this post 🙂

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    1. I feel like these specific terms get shuffled around a lot. It isn’t uncommon to think of yaoi/yuri as more sexual terms. I believe you are correct when it comes to BL being more of a “platonic” relationship between two men, but I feel like “yaoi” often gets mixed in with it. If you know what I mean? Sometimes sexual themes in anime are heavily implied while other times the viewer just gets teased. I feel like this topic is a very fine line (especially between yaoi, BL, and shounen-ai like you mentioned). I don’t know if there is another term for yuri? I haven’t really dug into that one yet! Maybe I’ll have to do some more research and see what I can find out.


      1. Haha oh no I’m sorry, I might not have been clear. BL is never platonic. It’s very much romantic relationships between two male characters. It just doesn’t contain the same sexually explicit content as yaoi. In BL you never see the act of sex, though it is often heavily implied. In yaoi, you always see sex, even if just once or twice. 🙂


      2. Ok so follow-up: I realize that part of the struggle with these genre labels is translator unclarity. In Japan, the differences are generally more clear, but outside of Japan, it sounds like, terms like Yuri and shoujou-ai, yaoi, shounen-ai and boys love are more ambiguous and commonly used interchangeably for various reasons. Haha, genre 🤕 😂

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